Planning a wedding can be really time consuming affair especially if the couple are in full time jobs and trying to plan their wedding around their jobs. While a wedding is an exciting event to plan for, the long duration of the planning time can sometimes result in a very burnt-out bridal couple! So here are some tips to have a stress-free wedding planning period! 
Pace Yourself
After the memorable proposal with the perfect diamond ring, the first task is usually to select the wedding date. Most couples usually give themselves at least 6 months to a year to plan for their wedding to ensure they can get the suitable wedding venues and take their pre-wedding photographs. The start of the wedding planning process is usually a breathless time of excitement and light-headedness as couples rush out to look for the best wedding vendors and dream wedding venue.
It is great to be excited but do try to pace yourself to ensure the excitement continues right up to the wedding! A burnt out couple will not be able to accomplish much in the crucial few weeks right before the wedding and often will not enjoy their wedding much.
The Big Picture
Do you think anyone might notice the crooked ribbon on your deco that drove you up the wall?
Usually, only the couple themselves would notice the tiny imperfections that often cause major breakdowns and arguments between couples. Always keep the big picture in mind when planning for your wedding. Start with the big items that need to be finalised quickly such as your wedding venue and choosing your bridal studio. Think of the details only closer to your wedding date after you have had the chance to research and survey vendors or designs and have a better idea of the things you are looking for. Otherwise, trying to finalise little details too early in the planning process when you still don’t know what you want can sometimes lead to major meltdowns and stress!
It’s The Marriage, Not The Wedding
Wedding planning is often one of the most stressful times for both the bride and groom. Suddenly, things that seemed so rosy and beautiful during the courtship days can be the total opposite when both parties find themselves disagreeing on the wedding plans. Quarrels and arguments are very common during this time as bridezillas (and in some cases, groomzillas!) start raising their ugly heads.
When you find a big row starting to brew, take a deep breath. Remind yourself that whilst the wedding is an important event, what is more important is the marriage ahead and the new journey you both will embark on. That will certainly put your disagreements and priorities into perspective!
Take A Day Off
It can sometimes be overwhelming thinking and talking about the wedding every hour, every day! So try to take a day off from discussing about the wedding in the week. Instead, spend that time with your loved ones on the other important things in your life or go out on a carefree date with your fiance or fianceé. The break you get from wedding planning will help reduce stress and arguments and help you focus when you start your planning again.
With these tips, planning your dream wedding could be an easier and less stressful time. Do try to enjoy planning your own wedding as it is the biggest party of your life! However, if you find yourself on the verge of breaking down or you’re turning into a major Bridezilla, do consider hiring a wedding planner! 
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