Children are cute and cuddly but bored children in a formal event can really spell trouble during the formailities of a wedding ceremony. We’ve all seen in movies or heard from real weddings how mischievous children can mess up a wedding, spoil a wedding cake or soil the bride’s gown with unintentional cuteness. A wedding is stressful enough as it is and the couple certainly does not need the added stress of making sure guests’ children are kept entertained and out of trouble. Some weddings are held in an expensive and exclusive location which might be dangerous and expensive if children accidentally break something.
So, how do you tactfully make it clear in your wedding invitation to exclude children? Read on below for some tips on how you can politely word your wedding invitation to be an adults-only wedding.
Non-Child Friendly Weddings
Politely word in your card that alcohol will be served and the wedding dinner will run late into the night followed by a no-children caveat. This tells that you’re putting the best interests of any children and your guests’ sanity and enjoyment first.
Never Use “No Children Allowed”
The phrase “No Children Allowed” is a lot stronger than it seems and most parents will be offended to see it. Instead, include an “Adults Only” or “Adult Reception” clause in your invitation response card.
Be Consistent
If you are not having any children invited to your wedding, ensure you are consistent by excluding all children including those from your wedding party. It might be a lot harder than you think!
Spread The Word
You might not want to put this clause in the invitation but you can try to spread the word around that it is preferable for children not to attend. It might not be the most effective way as some guests may still turn up with their children.
Assign Seats
Another way is to specify the number of seats allocated to each guest in the invitation itself. However, do note that it might be overlooked or ignored by some guests.
Not having children at your wedding can be a little sensitive and you may have to put up with offended parents who think you are rude and inconsiderate for not inviting their children to your wedding. Discuss it with your partner and reach an agreement. After all, it is your wedding and it should go just the way you wanted it to.
Alternatively, have a big family wedding with children and perhaps a smaller adults-only reception for your friends to keep everyone happy. Otherwise, look out for coming tips on how you can keep children at your wedding happy and entertained!
With Love,
Elle